I avoid this sort of thing because of the bring-down factor, but my dear Auntie Grace passed away last week, and I'm missing the memorial even as I type this. Obit available here.
While of course I'm saddened by the loss, I'm most disturbed by that list of grandchildren. I seem to have missed a couple somewhere along the way. Which makes me feel bad because it means I'm totally uninvolved in my family's lives. Which is true, but I rarely am confronted with the evidence.
Love to all.